Author Nelson Wang recalls the exact moment when his 12-year-old daughter, Amanda, at that time, became a devoted New York Knicks fan. Although he had always been a team supporter, he barely anticipated this step from his child. The connection happened during the playoff series when the Knicks faced the favorites, the Boston Celtics. In the first game, the Knicks had an initial 20-point deficit but managed to make a spectacular comeback. Amanda, who was with her mother, sent messages to her father, who was attending a baseball game, expressing her amazement and excitement as her team began to recover their losses. The two teams engaged in an intense duel, culminating in a decisive strategic steal by Jalen Brunson against Boston's biggest star, securing the Knicks' victory. [1]
The shared enthusiasm continued in the following games. Two years later, in a similar scenario, the Knicks again faced an early deficit but found a way to qualify, and the same player, Brunson, made the same type of game-winning play. These dramatic victories marked the beginning of a new chapter in the relationship between father and daughter. They finished the series with a record of four wins and two losses, causing a major upset. Meanwhile, the author reflects on his own father, an immigrant from Hong Kong, who took him to a few baseball games in the '70s but was a distant figure. Although those games sparked his passion for sports, they did not create the emotional bond he wished to have with his daughter. [1]
Nelson Wang decided from Amanda's birth that things would be different. He encouraged and validated her feelings, bonding with her in creative ways such as cooking and composing lyrics. After his divorce from Amanda's mother, they shared custody, which further stimulated his desire to maintain a close relationship. He tried for a while to coach her at a basketball center, but the girl's interest waned. However, the desire to connect through supporting the local team remained. He faced the difficulties of Amanda's early career years, when the Knicks were not a very good team, and management made unsatisfactory choices. The author made compromises and even took her to Nets games in Brooklyn, but the Knicks remained his primary symbol. [1]
As the team became more competitive, the author began watching more games alongside his daughter. The previous year's playoff series against Boston was the turning point. In the second game, they developed specific signals for each key player. The sign for Karl-Anthony Towns (KAT), who scored a remarkable basket, was the gesture of scratching with hands like cats. For Jalen Brunson, the team leader, they mimicked his characteristic gesture of kissing three fingers on each hand and raising them to the sky, adding the shout “JB!” For Mikal Bridges, they developed a finger fluttering gesture and the shout “building Bridges!”. [1]
For OG Anunoby, they drew inspiration from a moment when the camera showed former Senator Bill Bradley making an “O” sign with his hands above his head. Thus, they created their own symbolic language. Moreover, discussions about tactics allowed them to share advanced knowledge. For example, Amanda asked why the Knicks didn't withdraw Mitch Robinson from the free-throw line, considering him prone to mistakes. Her father explained the tactical calculations involving the balance between defense and offensive weaknesses. When she understood, she felt fulfilled. [1]
To follow the playoff series against the Indiana Pacers, the author bought expensive tickets, approximately $700 each, much to the disappointment of his friend Dave, who offered him four tickets. Despite the high price, the atmosphere at Madison Square Garden, known as the “mecca of basketball,” fascinated them. Together with Dave and his daughter, they experienced the intense live match, making specific signs during scoring moments. Although the Knicks lost the series to the Pacers, the experience was intense and memorable. Later, the author expressed admiration for the father-daughter bond through sports, observing how his friend Ed maintained this tradition with his children despite the high cost of tickets. After convincing him to purchase partial season tickets for the next season, they participated in many regular-season games, joining the arena's specific rituals: [1]
By the end of 2024, the Knicks won their first NBA championship in 53 years, after a dramatic and spectacular series that united the entire city. The author considers that although both had moments of turmoil, they won together much earlier. Through these sporting experiences, he showed Amanda how victories can be amplified and defeats mitigated when shared with loved ones. She discovered the importance of presence in moments of happiness and devotion to an ideal. Also, she gave her father a gift for Father’s Day: a collection of historical stories related to the Knicks, a gesture full of affection. [1]
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